BDSM词汇（DBSM vocabulary PS.中文见文章下面）

1.Age play – A type of role play to gratify a fetish surrounding age; typically daddy/child or mommy/child fantasies [see also: Infantilism].

2.Algolagnia –

The act of transforming pain into sexual pleasure. A synonym for sadomasochism (SM). [see Sadism, sadist; Sadomasochism; Masochism, masochist].

3.Alternative sexuality – A sexual orientation that differs from a preference for vaginal intercourse (with minor variations) within a monogamous heterosexual relationship.

4.Alternative lifestyle – Having a sexuality that differs significantly from the “norm” (see Alternative sexuality) may make an alternative lifestyle necessary or desirable. A sexual orientation less common than the norm may stigmatize the individual pushing the person to seek a more accepting subculture. An example is homosexuality and the formation of the gay community.

5.Anal play – Any sexual or fetish practice concerning the anus and/or rectum, chiefly includes: anal sex, rimming, enema play, and anal fisting.

6.Anal training – Preparation of the anus for anal play.

7.Anilingus – Anal-oral sex. Dental dam or plastic wrap is helpful for preventing exchange of harmful organisms.

8.Animal play – Role playing wherein one or both partners assumes the role of an animal, chiefly: puppy, dog, and pony.

9.Asphyxiation play – Restricting air (and/or blood) flow by choking to enhance the sensation of orgasm. Very dangerous play, we don?t recommend it.

10.BDSM – Once upon a time this was all called Sadomasochism (SM, S/M or S&M) and we were all deemed very bad, sick, perverted people. We were just people though, as horny as everyone is, with a little kink to make us special. But some of us didn?t want to be called sick, bad perverts and these people invented names like Dominance and Submission (D&S, DS or D/s). Love Bondage (Love Bondage) and Bondage and Discipline (B&D) to make themselves and the pleasure police think that what they did was different from what those sad, twisted, nasty old sadomasochists did, no no! Then we all got online with our personal computers (well, a lot of us did) and began doing what people do best when they?re not having sex: argue. For months arguments about labels for our kinks clogged up the computer networks.

Finally, the term BDSM was born. This made many kinky people happy because it incorporated Bondage and Discipline (BD), Dominance and Submission (DS) and Sadomasochism (SM).

11.Black lightning – A common nickname for a black fiber glass or resin rod that is used as a cane. Denser than rattan, it can inflict deeper damage and the feel is described as “cutting.” [see Cane]

12.Black snake – A type of single-lash whip that is flexible all the way to the knob.

13.Bloodsport – SM practices that result in drawing blood. Can include whipping or caning that breaks the skin, branding, cutting, and piercing.

14.Body fluid monogamy, body fluid bonding – A practice of sharing body fluids only between two partners in order to observe safer-sex recommendations. Commonly, the partners have been tested negative for HIV, sometimes also for hepatitis B and C. The partners may or may not play with others outside their relationship, but only by observing strict safer-sex rules. [see Safer Sex]

15.Bondage – Any practice involving restraints placed on the body to restrict freedom of movement.

16.Bondage and discipline, B~D – A classic term referring to several sexual practices including: bondage, slave training, corporal punishment, and dominant/submissive role play.

17.Bondage belt – A belt, usually leather with metal rings attached, to assist in performing bondage.

Bondage frame – Any stationary device used to assist in performing bondage.

18.Bondage harness – A configuration of straps, usually leather or nylon designed to: 1) ornament the body, and 2) aid in bondage and suspension bondage.

19.Bottom – An SM practitioner who submits to bondage, training, role play, corporal punishment, etc., but who is not necessarily emotionally committed to his/her dominant partner (top).

20.Bottoming from the top – Originally a derogatory term for a top who allows his bottom to run the scene, “bottoming from the top” has become a valid style of play. Most tops experience some scenes where they prefer to take at least some direction from their bottoms. Some even prefer this style of play and may call themselves submissive sadists. [see also, Topping from the bottom]

21.Bottom-space or sub-space – A type of erotically altered consciousness (EAC) identified with feelings of falling into a state of submission. Generally, bottom- or sub-space may be characterized by, diminished ego awareness, less active cognitive behavior, surrendering of will, and/or inability to verbalize. Frequently these functions are assumed by the dominant partner who becomes the submissive’s center of focus.

22.Brat – A bottom who enjoys struggling against control or challenging the top. Brattiness has a wide spectrum from the playful “uppity bottom” to the smart-ass masochist (which see). Some brats are “testing” their dominant, others have a desire to be “conquered and tamed,” while some simply do not wish to be controlled. [see Smart-ass masochist]

23.Brain fade – A state of confusion and/or inability to reason experienced by the submissive. This effect usually results from psychological domination, the mind-fuck, or a deepening submissive state. [see Bottom-space, Sub-space]

24.Breast bondage – Tying the female breasts with cord, string, rope, rubber bands, scarves, etc. as a part of SM or erotic play. May include nipple bondage or clamping.

25.Breath control – Control of breathing by the dominant through use of a gas mask or similar apparatus, by choking, or by covering the mouth and nose.

26.Body modification – The general term for practices that reshape or ornament the body for ritual, erotic, decorative, or fetish purposes. The practices commonly include tattooing, piercing, branding, cutting, and corsetry.

27.Boundaries – Usually refers to limits (which see) negotiated prior to SM play.

28.Branding – Burning the skin, usually with heated metal, to produce scarification. Branding can be a part of a scene, ritual, or body modification. The design often consists of several unconnected lines and curves, each requiring a separate strike with heated metal, bent to form its part of the design. The reason for the unconnected lines is to assure that elements of the design do not scar into a shapeless mass; human skin heals differently than the hides of livestock.

29.Buggywhip – A single thong whip with a rigid core and a flexible cracker at the end.

30.Cage, bondage cage – Yup, a cage is a cage. These are big enough to hold the whole submissive

31.Cane – Traditional canes are flexible rattan or bamboo optionally having a leather wrapped handle. Modern canes may be plastic or fiber glass.

32.Caning – The art of using a cane on a bottom.

33.Cat or cat o’ nine tails – The term originally referred to a whip used by British navy. Now, cat usually to refers to all multi-thonged whips.

34.Catharsis – Purgation of emotions and or stress through an SM scene may or may not be intentional.

35.Checking-in – Asking the submissive how they are doing, feeling, etc. during a scene. Specific questions get more useful answers. An affirmative response to “Are you ok?” may merely indicate that death is not impending, but there still may be problems, particularly with a macho sub. “Would you enjoy heavier (or lighter) sensations?” is a better question. In SM play “is this good for you?” is asked during a scene rather than the typical “was it good for you?”afterwards. Checking-in should not replace a dominant’s own observation and focus, it is another part of the safety net.

Cinching   1) Wearing of a cincher, a garment similar to, but less encompassing than a corset. 2) A bondage technique, for example, to tighten coils of rope holding the wrists together by wrapping the coils between the wrists by one or more “cinch loops” of rope.

36.Clamp, clamping – Nipple clamps, clothespins, and binder clips are used to pinch or squeeze a small bit of flesh. The target areas for clamping are nipples, cocks, vulvas, and other erotically sensitive areas such as the sides of the torso and inner thighs. Weights can be added to increase the rigor.

37.Clip – [see Clamp, Clamping]

38.Clean – A code word used to describe a condition of being disease free. [see Code word]

39.Cock and ball torture or CBT – Tortures are inflicted on these body parts using clothespins, clamps, cock cages, weight, and various kinds of bindings.

40.Code word(s) – Word(s) used in personal ads to disguise sexual proclivities that may be unacceptable to mainstream society, eg: English culture, French culture, Greek, clean, discipline, strict, leather, etc.

41.Collar, collared – 1) A symbol of surrender worn by a submissive. A collar is given in a relationship as a profound symbol of a commitment and bond. A “collared” submissive is considered to be owned (which see) or partnered with a dominant player. 2) A piece of bondage equipment worn around the throat.

42.Conditional compliance – The SM one-nighter, a limited exchange of power negotiated by a dom and sub for a single scene or brief period of play, such as overnight, one day, or one weekend. [see Power exchange levels]

43.Conditioning – The term used in psychology for the deliberate process of creating a psychological link between a desired response and an unrelated stimulus. Much of what people in the SM community refer to as training or slave training uses classic conditioning techniques.

44.Condom – A latex sheath used on a penis or toy as a barrier to prevent the transmission of disease or pregnancy. Natural lambskin condoms are also available, but don’t function effectively to prevent the spread of viral illness. [see Safer Sex]

45.Consensual – Behavior or activities agreed to by all parties involved. True consent is informed consent and requires a reasonably accurate knowledge of possible risks.

46.Contrapolar stimulation “Hurts so good!” – A type of physical stimulation that Incorporates feeling of both pleasure and pain.

47.Corporal – Activities that involve the striking of one individual by another are called corporal from the term corporal punishment. Typically corporal activities include spanking, flogging, paddling, and caning.

48.Counting – The ritualized counting of strokes received. The sub may be required to thank the dominant with each count. Example: “One, thank you Sir. Two, thank you Sir, etc.” A typically diabolic practice is to start the count over again each time a mistake is made. Some masochists never seem to get the count correct, even with their shoes off.

49.Covenant of dominance and submission – A deeply committed symbiotic relationship between a dominant and a submissive. [see Levels of power exchange]

50.Crossdressing – Dressing in clothes of the opposite gender.

51.Crucifixion – Bondage incorporating a stationary cross. The submissive?s arms and legs are tied, not nailed. Care must be taken to ensure that the torso is properly supported, otherwise, strangulation may occur.

52.Cuff, cuffing – 1) Placing handcuffs, manacles, or similar restraints on the wrists and/or ankles. 2) Also refers to the restraints in the noun form. For example: “That is a nice cuff you?re wearing,” or “This cuffing is very comfy.”

Cutting   I) slicing the skin as a part of body modification, ritual, or scene. Most frequently, designs are transferred to the skin as they would be for the creation of a tattoo. Then either scalpels, razor blades, art knives, or other cutting tool incise the skin at a depth of 1/16″ to 3/16. Cuttings can include color by means of tattoo inks or cigar (not cigarette) ash rubbed into the fresh wounds. Care should always be taken to insure sterile conditions. 2) The breaking of skin by use of a corporal instrument. Single lash whips, canes, crops and others can cut if used improperly. 3) The deep stingy feel of some toys.

53.Dental dam – A latex barrier used for cunnilingus or anillngus to prevent disease transmission. Plastic food wrap is an inexpensive, but satisfactory, substitute.

54.Derivative pleasure, immediate/delayed – Corporal strokes that are painful at impact, but pleasurable following initial execution. An immediately derived pleasure stroke feels good right after the impact. Delayed derivative pleasure is an accumulation of painful strokes that explodes into sexual heat some time later.

55.Discipline – The “D” in B&D that can mean; 1) punishment 2) structured training of a submissive.

56.Do-me queen/king – A bottom that takes passive delight from the physical activities of scening without a desire to give submission or pleasure in return.

57.Dominance, dominance & submission, D/S, D&S – The consensual empowerment of one partner by the other for erotic enhancement. Dominance and submission are the psychological and emotional underpinnings of SM. [see Power exchange]

58.Dominant, Dom, Domme, Domina, Dominatrix – The person who is given control in a consensual exchange of power. Domme, Domina, and Dominatrix refers to women. Dominant, or Dom can refer to either gender.

59.Edge play – Erotic role play near or at the edge of a submissive?s or dominant?s limits. The term also refers to activities that carry a higher than usual element of risk.

60.Electro-torture – The use of electrical stimulation to create a desired physical sensation.

61.Emotional buttons, emotional triggers – Associations with words, behaviors, or activities that provoke a strong emotional reaction. Dominants will do well to become familiar with the unique triggers of his submissive. It is important to know, as much as possible. which buttons evoke positive and negative responses.

62.Endorphins, endorphin high – Endorphins are substances created by the body to help endure pain or stress. Entirely natural, but theoretically similar in feel to opiates. The body?s release of endorphins may create a feeling of well-being, even intoxication, which is called an endorphin high. People differ dramatically in their ability to release endorphins. The possibility of addiction to endorphins has been conjectured.

63.Enema – The instrument used for, or the act of injecting fluid into the anus to flush the lower intestines. Some people include enemas in SM scenes for humiliation, for preparation for other activities (such as fisting or anal sex), and/or simply because they may enjoy the sensation.

64.English – A code word for spanking or corporal punishment sometimes used in ads. We will have achieved social acceptance when ads in mainstream papers can say, “Romantic sadist seeks masochist lover,” instead of nonsense like, “devotee of English culture seeks receptive partner.”

65.Erotic power – Erotic power is like potential energy, becoming significant only when it is exchanged or used to empower a dominant by the transfer of control. [see Power exchange]

66.Erotic pain – Stimuli that are painful under normal circumstances, but are pleasurable or arousing in a sexual context.

67.Erotic restraint – Restricting movement for erotic play. Also, refers to the devices used for said purpose.

68.Erotic surrender – The sexually motivated gift of control of one?s self (within negotiated limits) to one?s partner. A more accurately descriptive phrase for submission.

69.Erotically altered consciousness, EAC – Any one of several altered states of consciousness achieved by erotic stimulation. [see: Bottom-space, Sub-space; Endorphin high, Flying, Top-space]

70.Exhibitionism– To show off or expose oneself sexually. Usually done to gain pleasure.

71.Fetish – A sexual fixation on an activity or object.

72.Fetish community – The name given to that group of people having an alternate sexual or gender orientation, but excluding the (vanilla) gay and lesbian communities.

73.Fire & ice – The use of hot and cold for sexual stimulation, especially hot wax dripped from a candle and ice applied to the skin.

74.Fisting – Insertion of the entire hand into the vagina (vaginal listing) or the anus [anal fisting).

75.Flagellation – The act of whipping a human being.

Flogger, flogging – An unbraided multi-thonged whip is a flogger. To whip using a flogger or other corporal instruments.

76.Flying – A transcendent state of consciousness sometimes achieved during an SM scene. This rapturous state has been so often described in a similar manner by independent sources that we have no doubt of the validity of the experience. Feelings described by the submissive seem similar to that of out of body experiences and often include a psychic link to the dom. Most commonly, this link is felt as either a tether to the dominant or as a feeling of being surrounded and protected by the dom?s presence or consciousness. Elation and spaciness experienced after flying may be felt for hours, even days after the session has ended.

77.French – A common code word for kissing involving the tongue, cunnilingus, and fellatio.

Foot fetish, foot worship – A sexual obsession directed toward the feet and/or shoes.

78.Forced oral, forced sex – Sexual role play where the dom pretends to force an activity that the sub pretends they are under duress to perform. It involves a shared suspension of reality. (A dom only “forces” the sub to perform activities he or she has requested.)

79.Gag, gaggage – devices that are inserted in or cover the mouth to muffle sound.

80.Gear – Toys, props, clothes and what-have-you used for scene purposes.

81.Gender community – People with cross-gender fantasies or cross-gender identification. Cross-dressers, transvestites, and transsexuals make up the gender community.

82.Gender orientation – Gender orientation is an issue apart from sexual orientation. It is self-identification and feelings of maleness or femaleness, rather than issues of sexual attraction. A person with an alternate gender orientation may or may not have an alternate sexual orientation. For example; a transvestite or a transsexual may be either heterosexual or gay.

83.Gender play – To dress up or take the role of the opposite sex during a scene. [see Sissification]

84.German – A code word for Sadomasochistic desires.

85.Golden shower – Urination on or in another person.

86.Greek – The code word for anal sexual activities.

87.Handcuffs – These metal shackles are used to bind wrists by law enforcement personal, legally, and by sadomasochists, covertly. Handcuffs are considered weapons and illegal to own in most states, but are easy to buy and commonly used.

88.Head games – 1) Domination where the focus is primarily mental, such as humiliation, rather than physical, such as bondage or whipping. 2) Non-consensual psychological manipulation to make a person respond in a particular way for one’s own purposes.

89.Heavy – 1) Intense SM play or whipping. 2) A term describing an SM toy such as a flogger or cane that is capable of delivering intense sensations.

90.Hood – A covering for the head. Hoods used in SM are made of various materials, especially; leather, spandex, and rubber. Some hoods are constructed as ornamentation, others are used as a part of bondage to control or restrict sight, sound, speech (by incorporating a gag), and/or breathing.

91.Humiliation – Playful embarrassment or humbling a person by teasing them about their sexual desires can be part of erotic control. Humiliation in SM can paradoxically build a person?s self-esteem rather than tearing it down by reinforcing their sexuality. Real attacks on a person?s self-worth or sexuality, or manipulations designed to break their spirit are abuse not within the appropriate practice of SM.

92.Infantilism – Role play involving infant-like behavior such as diaper wearing, nursing, etc.

93.In-role – Assuming the persona of a sexual archetype or fantasy character.

94.Isolation – 1) A fear of interrelating with others. People are often; a) afraid to “come out” about their attraction to SM out of fear of societal repercussions, or b) they may think that no one shares their attraction to a particular SM (or other sexual) practice. In both cases, this can lead to feelings of inadequacy, self-doubt, depression, and/or loneliness. 2] A technique of sensory deprivation, bondage, and trickery to make a submissive feel as though he or she is being left alone.

95.Japanese bondage – [see Oriental bondage, rope dress]

96.Kama Sutra – an ancient Sanskrit guide to sexual technique, human sexual behavior and love.

97.Katherine wheel – A piece of dungeon equipment that looks like a large, vertically mounted wheel to which a submissive is bound, allowing her to be turned or spun. Warning: not for use with the sub that is inclined toward motion sickness.

98.Knife play – Play that includes the use of a knife (does not necessarily imply cutting). Knives are more often used as props for psychological effect, to scrap wax from a body after a fire and ice scene, to remove clothing, and endless other devious purposes.

99.Latex – Latex and rubber are used to make clothing, sheets and other fetish items

100.Leather butt – 1) A term that describes a person who has been beaten so often that only intense whipping has any effect. 2) The condition of the buttocks after heavy paddling. The skin compresses and becomes stiff or “leathery” to the touch. The compression effect is most pronounced with paddles, so leather butt can be avoided by using a mixture of implements.

101.Lifestyler – A person who lives a lifestyle that supports rather than conflicts with his SM fantasy archetype. Some lifestylers object to the characterization of their SM identities as fantasy role play, feeling that it is integral to their personalities rather than a sexual game. It is easy, and often attractive, to confuse reality and fantasy. [see Alternate sexuality; Alternate lifestyle; In-role]

102.Limit – The boundaries of SM activities set by both dominant and submissive during negotiation defining what each is willing and unwilling to do within a scene. Limits must be respected and never intentionally breached by either partner. Limits apply to roles, levels of dominance and submission, and duration of time, as well as physical activities such as whipping, paddling, etc.

103.Live-in slave – A lifestyle submissive in a committed relationship who lives within the context of a slave/master (or mistress) fantasy.

104.Macho sub – A submissive with a reluctance to show distress, use a safe word, or who feels a need to stoically endure what is not pleasurable. The macho sub may be motivated by a desire to prove her mettle, show devotion, or reflect her internal fantasy. The macho sub must make sure the dom is aware of her inclinations during negotiation. The dom of a macho submissive should rely more on a checking-in technique and less on spontaneous feedback. The macho sub?s saving grace is a strong desire to obey. Ordering her to communicate clearly about stress, as it occurs can override some of her reluctance to “be a wimp.”

105.Masochism, masochist – The erotic enjoyment of pain, humiliation, and/or of being dominated. One who enjoys pain, etc. Sometimes the terms are used to describe one who enjoys heavier pain.

106.Master – A male that takes the dominant role in SM role play. The title may be bestowed upon the male dominant in appreciation of his skill. It may be a term of endearment or a loving tribute to a dom by a submissive in a relationship. Equally often, the term is self-aggrandizement by a male with dominant fantasies, not infrequently with “true” or “real” tacked in front.

107.Mental bondage– Ropeless bondage by command. A submissive instructed by her dominant to remain in position will feel bound to obey.

108.Mistress – A female dominant. [see Dominant, Dom, Domme, Domina, Dominatrix

109.Mummification – A bondage technique of completely or almost completely wrapping a submissive in restrictive material, such as; plastic wrap, spandex, elastic or gauze bandages, etc.

110.Negotiation – The process of determining the practices and boundaries of sexual and SM activities between a top and a bottom. It may apply to the whole relationship or just a specific scene. Negotiating is an ongoing process that is repeated as the players? needs change.

111.Nipple clamps, nipple clips – [see Clamp, Clamping]

112.Nipple play/torture – Stimulation of the nipples for corporal or erotic purposes. Often includes; sucking, pinching, clamping, fire and ice, or piercing.

113.Non-consensual – SM play that is not sanctioned by either player.

114.Nostril strap – A device, usually of bent wire, with a string attached for hooking into the nostrils for humiliation and torment. Commonly used in Japanese SM.

115.Novice – A person with an interest in SM, but lacking in experience.

116.Oriental bondage, rope dress – Any of a number of styles of rope bondage stemming from styles used in the Far East. Typically, the bondages are highly decorative, uniform, and symmetrical.

117.Over the knee, OTK – A classic spanking position. Also a code word for same.

118.Ownership, absolute ownership – 1) Within master/slave role play ownership means having control of the submissive. 2) Loosely used in the SM community to mean an ongoing dominant/submissive relationship. 3) Absolute ownership is a lost-in-fantasy relationship based on sadomasomythology and fictional lore.

119.Paddle, paddling – A rigid flat-surfaced implement usually of leather or wood used for spanking a fanny. Paddling is the act of using a paddle. A paddle is also the implement that a wise-ass masochist often finds herself up the creek without.

120.Pain slut – A masochist who derives pleasure from physical pain.

121.Pansexual– Nongender specific sexual orientation. A group that encompasses all sexual and gender orientations is said to be pansexual.

122.Piercing – Piercing the skin with a needle in an SM scene, as ritual, or as body modification. Most frequently, piercings are accompanied by the installation of jewelry. An exception to this is play piercing. In play piercing, the needle is inserted into, or through, the skin as a part of a scene, but the wound(s) are often allowed to heal without jewelry being introduced.

In play piercings, many parts of the skin may be pierced at the same time. Sometimes, the needles are left in the skin throughout the scene, tied together by string, thread, or rope, then removed at the close of the scene.

Piercings that are intended to be permanent usually are placed in sites common among people of the Near East for ornamental and erotic value. These sites are, typically: nostril and septum of the nose, ears (in the lobes, tragus, and helix), lips, nipples, along the shaft and head of the penis, the scrotum, inner and outer labia, and the hood of the clitoris. Some newer fashions of piercings include the webs between the fingers, the eyebrows, and the bridge of the nose.

Erotic piercings are said to enhance sensation to the body parts that are pierced. Raelyn Gallina, body modification expert (she performs piercings, cuttings, and brandings) and jeweler from Oakland, CA, invented a piercing called the “Triangle”, which penetrates the clitoral hood on both sides, and underneath the clitoris, Thus, the ring installed contacts the clitoris in a place totally beneath the skin.

People seeking piercings are warned not to use piercing “guns”, sewing needles, or safety pins. It is best to seek professional assistance which is available in most parts of the United States, Canada, and Europe. Very often, tattoo shops will be associated with professional piercers. These people have the equipment to provide sterile piercings and the knowledge to recommend proper after care.

123.Pillory – Handed down from the reign of the Puritans, a pillory is usually wooden-framed, free-standing stocks that imprisons the head and wrists for immobilizing a person. For use with the humiliation of your choice.

124.Pizzle – The dried and stretched penis of a bull, or other large animal, formed into a whip. These are actually deadly toys.

125.Plastic wrap – Regular, old plastic food wrap can be used for encasing the body for bondage. Unlike food, it will not keep your submissive fresh. [see Mummification]

126.Play – Participating in an SM scene or SM scene activity.

127.Playroom, Pray space – Any area you designate in which to perform an SM scene. Hotel rooms, secluded woods, and delivery vans qualify as well as a permanently furnished basement or dungeon. Also referred to as dungeon space.

128.Play punishment – The use of punishment as an excuse for an erotic encounter. She burnt the toast that morning, forgot to say, “Sir,” or some other trivial misdeed and, alas, must be corrected. Somehow, both end up getting what they crave. As a game, this beats the heck out of strip monopoly. Punishment is an erotic game that should never be used to address serious problems.

129.Ponygirl, Ponyboy – A classic SM fantasy immortalized in the drawings of John Willie and used in the Sleeping Beauty Trilogy by Ann Rice. Typical pony garb includes a horsehair tail attached to a buttplug, a bit gag and/or bridle headharness, and reins. Often very high heels, a corset, and feather plumes in the hair are added. The arms are typically bound behind the back. Pony activities range from being displayed and directed by rein to being ridden or pulling a cart.

130.Pony training – The fanciful transformation of a girl (Or boy) into “pony” to be ridden, to pull a carriage, or to perform as a well-trained horse in obedience and deportment.

131.Position training – The training of a submissive to assume a given position upon command or under certain circumstances.

132.Post-scene plunge – Feelings of let-down, depression, fear, disgust, remorse, etc, after participating in SM play. Can be experienced by either dominant or submissive. Jay Wiseman, author of SM 101, uses the term “Top Drop” to describe these feelings on the part of the dominant.

Power exchange – The empowerment of the dominant by the submissive?s surrender to his/her control. Power exchange is consensual and should be well negotiated. The depth of the power yielded by the submissive is equal to level of responsibility assumed by the dominant.

133.Power exchange levels – A system for linking emotional involvement and depth of feeling with degree of power exchange. The Five Levels are: one – Conditional compliance, two – Restricted ongoing acquiescence, three – Provisional submission, four – the Covenant of dominance and submission, and five ? Absolute ownership. The first four levels are based in reality.

134.Provisional submission – An ongoing relationship negotiated between a dom and a sub characterized by power exchange and emotional involvement, but lacking serious commitment. [see Power exchange levels]

135.Psychosexual – Emotionality, attitudes, orientations, or mind sets associated with erotic behavior or sexual fantasy life.

136.Punitive pain – Pain that by intention is designed to hurt for nonerotic purposes, usually for punishment. This is abusive and often motivated by a misunderstanding of appropriate control mechanisms.

137.Pushing limits – 1) A careful process of gradual expansion of limits. 2) Intense play that comes close to the unbearable. [see Edge play]

138.PVC – poly-vinyl-chloride – 1) A type of plastic used for fetish clothing. 2) The PVC pipes made for plumbing that can be constructed into bondage devices.

139.Quirt – A corporal toy that looks something like a crop with a flexible, whip-like cracker at the end.

140.Restricted Ongoing Acquiescence – An agreement, negotiated by a dom and sub, to play casually for an extended period of time without serious emotional involvement. [see Power exchange levels]

141.Rimming – Common term for anilingus (anal-oral sex).

Role play – 1) Elaboration of one?s sexual inclinations by creating a fantasy framework for them. 2) People with compatible sexual fantasies taking on complimentary persona to interact with each other.

Rope dress   [see Oriental bondage, rope dress]

142.Rubber – [see Latex]

S.A.M.   [see Smart Ass Masochist]

143.Sadism, Sadist – Deriving sexual pleasure from the giving of pain, humiliation, and/or domination. The honorable sadist only gives pain or humiliation to those desiring it, respects limits, is caring and careful.

144.Sadomasochism, SM – Advanced sexual practices incorporating the consensual use of pain, humiliation, and power exchange for erotic enjoyment. SM includes dominance and submission, bondage and discipline, love bondage, and erotic spanking. The term is frequently misused to indicate heavier or more extreme practices

145.Sadomasomythology – The misconceptions of society in regard to what sadomasochism actually entails. Also, an ill-informed idea about a particular practice within SM.

146.Safe, sane, and consensual – Characterizes the acceptable play within the SM community; players adhere to safety precautions within their activities, do not participate in practices that will injure their partners (mentally or physically), and obtain consent by negotiating scenes and scene related activities before carrying them out.

147.Safe sex, Safer sex – Practicing sex wherein no body fluids are exchanged; includes the use of condoms on insertion toys as well as penises, dental dams, or plastic wrap for cunnilingus, cleanliness with regard to corporal toys, abstention from penetration, etc.

148.Safe word, Safe signal – A word, a phrase, or an action (like dropping a bail by a gagged submissive) used by the submissive as a signal to stop the scene or reduce the intensity.

149.St. Andrew’s cross – An upright cross in the shape of the letter “X” to which people are bound for flogging or torture.

150.Scat – Feces, also, play with feces.

151.Scene – 1) The SM or fetish community; or things associated with it. 2) An occurrence or session of SM play.

152.Scene friendly – Familiarity with, and acceptance of the SM scene and SM players, usually refers to a professional?s attitude (-therapist, -lawyer, etc.)

153.Scene gear – The SM (and often vanilla) toys we play with. [see Gear]

154.Sensory deprivation – Restricting or diluting a submissive?s ability to use one or more of his/her senses of touch, hearing, sight, taste, or smell as a part of an SM scene.

155.Sensory relocation – Transferring the feeling of a stimuli to a different body location than it is received.

Sensual play – SM play that focuses on stimulating the senses without the use of pain.

156.Service – Acts, chores, or labor, sexual or otherwise, performed by a sub for the benefit of a dom.

157.Session – A scene. [see Scene]

158.Serpent’s Tongue – A type of slapper made of a thick strap of leather, two or three inches wide, with a deep “V” cut into most of the length of the piece. Commonly, the handle will have a double thickness with a ring stitched at the end. This is a very nasty toy.

159.Sexual imprinting, re-imprinting – There is a school of thought stating that sexual responses result from imprinting based on past associations, experiences, background, and environment, often dating back to early childhood. Altering sexual behavior by changing responses and creating new associations is a technique called reimprinting.

160.Sexual magic, sensual magic – Positive descriptive terms for sadomasochism.

161.Silent alarm – A safety precaution used by players who are new to one another. For example: a submissive, playing with a dominant for the first time, might arrange for a friend to be near a te

162.lephone at a pre-arranged time. If the submissive does not call at that time, the friend will be alerted that something has gone wrong and will take steps to see that the submissive is safe.

Sissification, feminization – A practice desired by a male sub of “forced” cross-dressing and/or gender reassignment.

163.Slapper – A flexible semi-rigid strap used like a paddle.

164.Slave – 1) In the scene community sometimes used loosely as another word for submissive. 2) A submissive involved in a committed relationship incorporating a shared slave/master fantasy.

165.Slave contract – A written agreement elaborating the terms, goals, and limits of an SM relationship.

Slave training – The processes of: instructing a submissive in a dominant?s preferences, and, conditioning the submissive?s behavior.

166.Sling – A cross between a swing and a hammock in which a bottom may be comfortably suspended,

167.SM positive – A sympathetic or accepting attitude toward sadomasochism and/or SM play and players. [see Scene friendly]

168.SM virgin – A person with little or no experience in SM practices.

169.Smart Ass Masochist, SAM – A bottom, who rather than submitting, challenges or annoys to entice a dom to punish her. [see Brat]

170.Spandex – A very stretchable synthetic cloth used for fetish clothing and bondage gear.

171.Spanking – Striking a submissive, usually with an open hand, on her fanny. Some use this term to include paddling, as well.

172.Spanking bench – A piece of stationary equipment with attachment points to designed to secure a submissive in preparation for a spanking. Properly bound or positioned on a spanking bench, the submissive?s arse is in an accessible, convenient angle for a spanking or whipping.

173.Spanking skirt – A skirt or dress with cut-outs over each fanny cheek, designed to allow bare-skinned spanking. The spanking skirt is a classic piece of scene-wear that enhances humiliation/exhibitionism aside from its practical application.

174.Spreader bar – A strong bar, usually wooden, bamboo, or metal, with rings or holes on each end, used as a bondage tool to keep a submissive?s arms or legs apart.

175.Sting – A sharp biting feel to the surface of the skin.

176.Stocks – A device (usually wooden) with holes designed to imprison a submissive?s wrists and head, or wrists and ankles. [see Pillory]

177.Stoplight safe words – A commonly used system of safe words wherein red means stop the scene immediately and release the sub, yellow warns the dominant that the current practice is pushing the submissive?s endurance, and green lets the dominant know that what is happening is awfully nice and should be continued.

178.Straight – 1) Code word for heterosexual. 2) Adjective for someone or something that is not SM oriented. In this sense, a synonym for vanilla.

179.Strap – 1) As a noun, this is either a bondage restraint (usually leather with a buckle) or an instrument of corporal punishment (also, usually leather sans the buckle). 2) As a verb, it is the act of binding or beating a submissive with a strap.

180.Submissive, Sub – One who surrenders control of her body and behavior (within pre-defined limitations) to another for erotic play.

181.Sub-space– [see: Bottom-space]

182.Submissive uniform – A common mode of dress worn by submissives emphasizing their sexuality, usually very short skirts, revealing tops, high heels, and stockings supported by a garter belt or bustier.

183.Suspension – A bondage technique wherein the submissive?s weight, totally or partially, is borne by the restraints used in the bondage. Great care must be exercised in this practice; usually, bondage harnesses and suspension cuffs are used in suspension.

184.Suspension cuffs – Wrist and/or ankle restraints designed specifically for safe suspension. [see Cuff, Cuffing; Suspension]

185.Switch – 1) A person who enjoys taking either side in SM role or physical play; i.e. top or bottom, dom or sub. 2) A slender flexible branch from a tree or bush used for corporal punishment.

186.Tampon training – Rectal insertion of tampons by male submissives to empathize with the female menstrual cycle.

187.Tantric Yoga, Vajrayana Buddhism – Indian means for achieving a transcendent spiritual state that incorporates sexual and meditative techniques. There are many paths to enlightenment and erotic exploration is one.

188.Tawes. taws – Thick rigid leather with a lengthwise slit (or slits) in it used in a paddle-like fashion.

189.Thud – A blow that is felt at a deeper level than sting, Thud is usually easier to tolerate, but may actually be more damaging as it can cause deeper bruising.

190.Tit torture – Erotic play involving the breasts.

191.Tolleyboy – A locking chastity belt made in England of rubber-lined stainless steel.

192.Top – One who takes the active role in physical scene, but not necessarily emotional/mental control.

193.Top’s disease – A state of self-delusion wherein the top believes his own fantasy of dominant superiority.

194.Topping from the bottom – Maintaining the fiction that the top is in charge, where the real control and direction of a scene rests with the bottom. [see also, Bottoming from the top]

195.Top-space – A state of erotically altered consciousness (EAC) achieved during a scene by the dominant or top. It is characterized by feelings of intense focus, clarity of thought, a sense of extreme power or high energy, and/or exhilaration. Feelings of distance and objectivity, as if one where commanding from a mountaintop, may paradoxically accompany feelings of connection to the submissive, as if there were a psychic link. A dispassionate perspective may combine with erotic ardor. Top space may be followed by either a continued sense of well-being or by feelings of fatigue, depression, or lethargy. [see Post-scene plunge]

196.Torture – Actions that would be painful outside of their erotic context used to enhance sexual pleasure for a bottom.

197.Total conversion or the “ouchless ouch” – Whips strokes or corporal stimuli delivered during an erotic scene that begins light and rises gradually. The level of sexual arousal is always kept at a high enough level so that the blows are never experienced subjectively as pain.

198.Training – Any of many disciplines wherein the dom and sub act together to modify the sub?s behavior, condition, and/or attitude. Includes, but is not restricted to; pony training, anal training, position training, voice command response, and so on.

199.TS, Transsexual – A person who born in a physical gender that does not match his or her personal psychology. These people are commonly going through “gender reassignment” by means of counseling, hormone treatments, and surgery to correct their situation. A TS is called a “pre-op” before surgical modification and a “post-op” afterwards.

200.TV, Transvestite – A man or woman dressing in the clothing of the opposite gender.

201.True Master/True submissive – A term of self-description usually used by incompetent newcomers or lost-in-fantasy others to entice a people to play with them. The “True Submissive” (or more typically “Tue slave”) is one who buys into the nonsense that the “Tue Master” is selling. “True sadomasochism” is also used to allude to a non-existent, “genuine” standard of SM excellence.

202.Vampire glove – Vampire gloves are most often thin leather driving gloves that have sharp, metal tines or tacks lining the palms. The tines are typically snap, or rhinestone settings that are poked through the leather from the inside and glued in place, though some very mean gloves utilize thumb or carpet tacks. Fur mitts can be embellished with tines in the same manner, yielding textures from very nice to yowee!

203.Vanilla – Describes things, activities and people who are not part of the SM scene, for example; “We had vanilla sex last night,” meaning, “We had sex without including any SM scene elements.”

204.Verbal humiliation/abuse – The use of sexual epithets and similar verbalizations to excite or humble one?s partner. Verbal humiliation is good when it is used to support the value of the submissive. It becomes abuse when it is used to tear down the self-esteem of the sub. The line between the two is not always clear and may vary within one person?s psyche depending upon mood. Use with caution and sensitivity.

205.Virgin rapture – Period of time (often years long) wherein newcomers are so overwhelmed by SM that they think the world revolves around it and can never imagine returning to any other form of sexuality. When the infatuation ends feelings of disappointment and loss are common. It may be reassuring to know that this is a normal process as SM is integrated into a person?s sexuality.

206.Vinyl – A material used for fetish fashions. [see PVC]

207.Violet wand – A static electricity generator, frequently with multiple glass attachments including: globes, thin tubes, fork-shaped tubes, etc., used to send virtually harmless, violet-colored static “lightning” to a submissive?s skin.

208.Visualization – The use of story-telling and verbal fantasy sharing to achieve a mood or desired mind set prior to, or during a scene.

209.Water sports – Sexual play involving urine or enemas. [see Golden Showers and Enema]

Weights _ Lead fishing weights or other weights hung from clamps that are attached to the body to increase torment. [see Clamps, Clamping]

210.Whip – A whip is an object used to beat on a submissive. Many people in the scene use the term whip to include canes, crops, paddles, slappers, etc., as well as single- and multiple-lash whips.

211.Whipping – 1) The act of beating a submissive or bottom. 2) Finishing a rope-end to prevent fraying by wrapping it with thread or string.

212.White lightning – A common nickname for a white fiber glass or resin rod often with a leather or rubber handle that is used as a cane. Being much more dense than rattan, it can inflict deeper damage and the feel is described as “cutting.” [see Cane]

213.Worship – 1) To lavish attentions upon a part of the body, usually feet, pussy or cock. 2) A role playing attitude toward a dominant, typically of a male sub toward his goddess/mistress.

214.Wrapping – Allowing the tips of a whip or cane to strike parts of the body other than the intended target. For example, aiming for the fanny and hitting it, but the tips of the whip wrap around the fanny and strike the hip. Bruising on the hips is often a sign of a careless or incompetent top who is frequently unaware of the damage that is occurring.

Wrist cuffs – Restraints designed to fit the wrists. [see Cuff, Cuffing]

215.X-frame – A stationary bondage frame in the shape of an “X”, usually mounted in a horizontal position. [see St. Andrew’s cross]

1.年龄扮演 – 一种满足围绕年龄的恋物癖的角色扮演;通常是爸爸/孩子或妈妈/孩子的幻想 [另见：婴儿主义]。

2.恋痛 – 将痛苦转化为性快感的行为。施虐受虐狂 （SM） 的同义词。[见，;施虐受虐狂;受虐狂，受虐狂]。

3.替代性行为 – 在一夫一妻制的异性恋关系中，不同于对阴道的偏好（有细微变化）的性取向。

4.另类生活方式 – 拥有与 “常态” 明显不同的性取向（ 另类性取向 ）可能使替代生活方式成为必要或可取的。比正常情况更不常见的性取向可能会使个人感到耻辱，促使人们寻求更包容的亚文化。一个例子是同性恋和同性恋社区的形成。

5.肛门游戏 – 任何关于肛门和/或直肠的性或恋物癖行为，主要包括：、舔肛、灌肠游戏和。

6.肛门训练 – 为肛门游戏做准备。

7.Anilingus – 肛门。橡皮障或保鲜膜有助于防止有害生物的交换。

8.动物游戏 – 角色扮演，其中一方或双方扮演动物的角色，主要是：小狗、狗和小马。

9.窒息游戏 – 通过窒息来限制空气（和/或血液）流动，以增强性高潮的感觉。非常危险的游戏，我们不建议这样做。

10.BDSM – 曾几何时，这一切都被称为施虐受虐狂（SM、S/M 或 S&M），我们都被认为是非常坏的、病态的、的人。不过，我们只是一些人，和每个人都一样好色，有一点怪癖让我们变得特别。但是我们中的一些人不想被称为病态、坏的变态，这些人发明了 Dominance 和 Submission（D&S、DS 或 D/s）等名字。爱束缚（Love Bondage）和束缚与纪律（B&D）让自己和快乐警察认为他们所做的与那些悲伤、扭曲、讨厌的老施虐狂所做的不同，不不！然后我们都用我们的个人电脑上网（嗯，我们很多人都是这样做的），并开始做人们在不做爱时最擅长的事情：争论。几个月来，关于我们怪癖标签的争论堵塞了计算机网络。

最后，BDSM 一词诞生了。这让许多变态的人很高兴，因为它结合了束缚与纪律 （BD）、支配与服从 （DS） 和施虐受虐狂 （SM）。

11.黑色闪电 – 用作手杖的黑色玻璃纤维或树脂棒的常见昵称。它比藤条更致密，可以造成更深的伤害，这种感觉被描述为“切割”。[见 Cane]

12.黑蛇 – 一种单睫毛鞭子，一直到旋钮都很灵活。

13.血腥运动 – 导致抽血的 SM 练习。可能包括鞭打或鞭打打破皮肤、烙印、切割和穿孔。

14.体液一夫一妻制，体液结合 – 仅在两个伴侣之间共享体液的做法，以遵守更安全的性行为建议。通常，伴侣的 HIV 检测呈阴性，有时也呈乙型和丙型肝炎阴性。伴侣可能会也可能不会与他们关系之外的其他人一起玩耍，但前提是要遵守严格的安全性行为规则。[见安全性行为]

15.束缚 – 任何涉及对身体施加约束以限制行动自由的做法。

16.束缚和纪律，B~D – 一个经典术语，指的是几种性行为，包括：束缚、奴隶训练、体罚和支配/顺从角色扮演。

17.束缚腰带 – 一种腰带，通常是带有金属环的皮革，用于协助执行束缚。

18.束缚框架 – 用于协助执行束缚的任何固定装置。

19.束缚背带 – 一种带子配置，通常是皮革或尼龙，旨在：1） 装饰身体，以及 2） 帮助束缚和悬挂束缚。

20.下图 – 屈服于束缚、训练、角色扮演、体罚等的 SM 练习者，但不一定在情感上对他/她的主导伴侣（上图）做出承诺。

21.从顶部触底 – 最初是一个贬义词，指的是允许他的底部主导场景的上层，“从顶部触底”已成为一种有效的游戏风格。大多数上衣都会经历一些场景，他们更喜欢至少从下装开始采取一些方向。有些人甚至喜欢这种游戏方式，可能会称自己为顺从的虐待狂。[另见，从底部开始的顶部]

22.底层空间或子空间 – 一种色情改变的意识 （EAC），与陷入屈服状态的感觉有关。一般来说，底层空间或子空间的特征可能是自我意识减弱、认知行为不那么活跃、意志投降和/或无法语言表达。通常，这些功能由成为顺从者的焦点的主导伙伴承担。

23.小子 – 喜欢与控制作斗争或挑战顶层的底层。自大的范围很广，从顽皮的 “uppity bottom” 到聪明的屁股受虐狂（见）。一些小子在“测试”他们的统治地位，另一些小子渴望被“征服和驯服”，而另一些则根本不希望被控制。[见聪明的屁股受虐狂]

24.大脑衰退 – 顺从者经历的困惑和/或无法推理的状态。这种效果通常是由心理支配、心灵操弄或不断加深的顺从状态引起的。[参见 底部空间、子空间]

25.乳房束缚 – 用绳子、绳子、绳子、橡皮筋、围巾等绑住女性乳房，作为 SM 或色情游戏的一部分。可能包括乳头束缚或夹住。

26.呼吸控制 – 支配者通过使用防毒面具或类似设备、窒息或遮住口鼻来控制呼吸。

27.身体改造 – 出于仪式、色情、装饰或恋物癖目的而重塑或装饰身体的做法的总称。这些做法通常包括纹身、穿孔、品牌、切割和紧身胸衣。

28.Boundaries – 通常是指在 SM 游戏之前协商的 Limit（见）。

29.烙印 – 通常用加热的金属灼烧皮肤以产生疤痕。品牌塑造可以是场景、仪式或身体改造的一部分。该设计通常由几条不相连的线条和曲线组成，每条线和曲线都需要用加热的金属单独敲击，弯曲以形成设计的一部分。不相连的线条的原因是为了确保设计的元素不会留下疤痕，形成一个无形的团块;人类皮肤的愈合方式与牲畜的皮肤不同。

30.Buggywhip – 一根丁字裤鞭子，具有刚性核心和末端的柔性饼干。

笼子，束缚笼 – 是的，笼子就是笼子。这些足够大，可以容纳整个顺从

31.手杖 – 传统手杖是灵活的藤条或竹子，可选择带有皮革包裹的手柄。现代手杖可以是塑料或玻璃纤维。

32.Caning 鞭刑 – 在底部使用手杖的艺术。

猫或猫 o' nine tails – 该术语最初是指英国海军使用的鞭子。现在，cat 通常是指所有多丁字裤鞭子。

33.宣泄 – 通过 SM 场景净化情绪和/或压力可能是有意为之，也可能不是。

34.签到——询问顺从者在场景中的表现、感受等。具体问题会得到更有用的答案。对“你还好吗”的肯定回答可能只是表明死亡并不迫在眉睫，但仍然可能存在问题，尤其是对于男子气概的潜艇。“你会喜欢更重（还是更轻）的感觉吗？在 SM 剧中，“这对你有好处吗？之后。签到不应取代支配者自己的观察和关注，它是安全网的另一部分。

收紧 1） 穿着紧身衣，一种类似于紧身胸衣的衣服，但包罗万丈。2） 一种束缚技术，例如，通过用一个或多个绳索“束带环”将线圈缠绕在手腕之间来收紧将手腕固定在一起的绳索线圈。

35.夹子、夹子 –夹、衣夹和活页夹用于捏住或挤压一小块肉。夹紧的目标区域是、、外阴和其他色情敏感区域，例如躯干两侧和大腿内侧。可以添加重量以增加严谨性。

36.夹子 – [参见夹紧、夹紧]

37.清洁 – 用于描述无病状况的代号。[见暗语]

38.公鸡和球酷刑或 CBT – 使用衣夹、夹子、公鸡笼、重物和各种捆绑器对这些身体部位施加酷刑。

39.暗语 – 个人广告中用于掩饰主流社会可能无法接受的性倾向的词语，例如：英国文化、法国文化、希腊语、干净、纪律、严格、皮革等。

衣领，有领 – 1） 顺从者佩戴的投降象征。项圈在一段关系中被赋予，作为承诺和纽带的深刻象征。“有项圈”的顺从者被认为是拥有（见）或与占主导地位的玩家合作。2） 戴在喉咙上的束缚设备。

40.有条件的遵守 – SM one-nighter，由 dom 和 sub 协商的单个场景或短暂的游戏时间（例如过夜、一天或一个周末）的有限权力交换。[参见能量交换等级]

41.条件反射 – 心理学中使用的术语，指的是在期望的反应和不相关的刺激之间建立心理联系的刻意过程。SM 社区中人们所说的培训或奴隶培训在很大程度上使用了经典的条件反射技术。

42.避孕套 – 用于阴茎或玩具的乳胶护套，作为防止疾病传播或怀孕的屏障。天然小羊皮避孕套也有，但不能有效防止病毒性疾病的传播。[见安全性行为]

双方同意 – 所有相关方同意的行为或活动。真正的同意是知情同意，需要对可能的风险有合理准确的了解。

43.对极刺激 “好痛！”– 一种结合了快乐和痛苦的感觉的物理刺激。

44.下士 – 涉及一个人被另一个人殴打的活动被称为下士，源自体罚一词。通常，身体活动包括打屁股、鞭打、划桨和鞭打。

45.Counting – 对收到的笔画进行仪式化的计数。替补可能需要在每次计数时感谢主导者。示例：“一，谢谢你，先生。二，谢谢你，先生，等等。一个典型的恶魔般的做法是每次犯错时都重新开始计数。一些受虐狂似乎从来没有正确计算过，即使他们脱掉了鞋子。

支配和服从的契约n – 支配者和服从者之间坚定的共生关系。[参见电力交换水平]

46.变装——穿着异性的衣服。

47.受难 – 结合固定十字架的束缚。顺从者的胳膊和腿是被绑住的，而不是钉住的。必须注意确保躯干得到适当支撑，否则可能会发生勒死。

48.手铐，手铐 – 1） 在手腕和/或脚踝上戴上手铐、手铐或类似的约束装置。2）也指名词形式的约束。例如：“你戴的袖口很好”或“这个袖口非常舒适”。

49.切削 I） 切开皮肤作为身体改造、仪式或场景的一部分。最常见的是，设计被转移到皮肤上，就像它们用于纹身一样。然后用手术刀、剃须刀片、艺术刀或其他切割工具在 1/16 英寸到 3/16 的深度切开皮肤。插条可以通过纹身墨水或雪茄（不是香烟）灰烬擦到新鲜伤口上来包括颜色。应始终注意确保无菌条件。2） 使用下士器械破皮。如果使用不当，单鞭、手杖、农作物和其他东西可能会被割伤。3）一些玩具的深邃吝啬感。

50.Dental dam （牙坝） – 用于舔阴或无阴以防止疾病传播的乳胶屏障。塑料食品包装是一种便宜但令人满意的替代品。

51.衍生性快感，即时/延迟 – 撞击时疼痛但初次执行后令人愉悦的下体击打。撞击后立即产生的愉悦击球感觉很好。延迟衍生快感是痛苦中风的积累，一段时间后爆发成性热度。

52.纪律 - B&D 中的“D”可能表示;1） 惩罚 2） 对顺从者的结构化训练。

53.Do-me 女王/国王 – 从表演的体育活动中获得被动快乐的底部，而不想给予屈服或快乐作为回报。

54.主导，主导和服从，D/S，D&S - 一方自愿赋予另一方权力以增强情欲。支配和服从是 SM 的心理和情感基础。

55.Dominant， Dom， Domme， Domina， Dominatrix – 在双方同意的权力交换中被赋予控制权的人。Domme、Domina 和 Dominatrix 指的是女性。Dominant 或 Dom 可以指任何一种性别。

56.边缘扮演 – 色情角色扮演接近或处于顺从或支配者的极限附近或边缘。该术语还指具有比平常更高的风险因素的活动。

57.电刑 – 使用电刺激来产生所需的身体感觉。

58.情绪按钮、情绪触发因素 – 与引起强烈情绪反应的单词、行为或活动的关联。支配者会很好地熟悉他的顺从者的独特触发因素。尽可能多地了解这一点很重要。哪些按钮会引起积极和消极的反应。

59.内啡肽，内啡肽高 – 内啡肽是身体产生的物质，用于帮助忍受疼痛或压力。完全天然，但理论上感觉与阿片类药物相似。身体释放内啡肽可能会产生一种幸福感，甚至中毒，这被称为内啡肽高。人们释放内啡肽的能力差异很大。对内啡肽上瘾的可能性已被推测。

60.灌肠 – 用于或向肛门注入液体以冲洗下肠的器械。有些人在 SM 场景中加入灌肠是为了羞辱、为其他活动做准备（例如或）和/或仅仅因为他们可能喜欢这种感觉。

61.英语 – 广告中有时使用的打屁股或体罚的代名词。当主流报纸上的广告可以说，“浪漫的虐待狂寻求受虐狂的情人”，而不是像“英国文化的奉献者寻求接受的伴侣”这样的废话时，我们就会获得社会认可。

62.情欲力量 – 情欲力量就像势能，只有当它被交换或通过控制权转移来赋予支配者权力时，它才会变得有意义。[见电力交换]

63.色情疼痛 – 在正常情况下是痛苦的，但在性环境中是令人愉悦或唤醒的刺激。

64.色情约束 – 限制色情游戏的运动。此外，指用于上述目的的设备。

65.色情投降——出于性动机的礼物，将自我控制权（在协商的范围内）交给伴侣。提交的更准确的描述性短语。

66.色情改变的意识，EAC – 通过色情刺激实现的几种改变的意识状态中的任何一种。[参见：底部空间、子空间;内啡肽高、飞行、顶部空间]

67.暴露狂– 炫耀或暴露自己的性行为。通常是为了获得快乐而做的。

68.恋物癖——对某项活动或物体的性执着。

69.恋物癖社区 – 对具有替代性取向或性别取向的那群人的名称，但不包括（普通）男同性恋和女同性恋社区。

70.火与冰 – 使用冷热进行性刺激，尤其是从蜡烛上滴下的热蜡和涂在皮肤上的冰块。

71.拳交– 将整只手插入阴道（阴道列表）或肛门 []。

72.鞭打 – 鞭打人的行为。

73.鞭打，鞭打 – 未编织的多丁字裤鞭子是鞭打者。使用鞭打器或其他下肢工具进行鞭打。

74.飞行 – 有时在 SM 场景中达到的超凡意识状态。独立来源经常以类似的方式描述这种狂喜的状态，以至于我们毫不怀疑这种体验的有效性。顺从者描述的感觉似乎与灵魂出窍体验相似，并且通常包括与 dom 的心理联系。最常见的是，这种联系要么被认为是对支配者的束缚，要么被认为是一种被支配者的存在或意识包围和保护的感觉。飞行后体验到的兴高采烈和空闲感可能会持续数小时，甚至在训练结束后数天。

75.法语 – 涉及舌头、舔阴和口交的接吻的常见暗语。

76.恋足癖、崇拜足部——针对脚和/或鞋子的性痴迷。

77.强迫、强迫性行为 – 性角色扮演，主宰假装强迫潜艇假装他们受到胁迫而进行的活动。它涉及对现实的共同悬浮。（dom 只会“强迫”潜艇执行他或她要求的活动。

78.堵嘴、堵嘴——插入或捂住嘴以消音的装置。

79.装备 – 玩具、道具、衣服和你用于场景目的的东西。

80.性别社区 – 具有跨性别幻想或跨性别认同的人。变装者、异装癖者和变性人构成了性别社区。

81.性别取向 – 性别取向是性取向之外的一个问题。这是自我认同和男性或女性的感觉，而不是性吸引力的问题。具有替代性别取向的人可能有也可能没有替代性取向。例如;异装癖者或变性人可能是异性恋或同性恋。

82.性别游戏 – 在场景中打扮或扮演异性的角色。[参见娘娘腔化]

83.德语 – 施虐受虐欲望的代名词。

84.黄金淋浴 – 在另一个人身上或体内排尿。

85.希腊语 – 肛门性活动的代号。

86.手铐 – 这些金属镣铐被执法人员合法地用于捆绑手腕，并被秘密地捆绑手腕。在大多数州，手铐被认为是武器，拥有手铐是非法的，但很容易购买且常用。

87.头部游戏 – 1） 统治，重点主要是精神上的，例如羞辱，而不是身体上的，例如束缚或鞭打。2） 未经同意的心理纵，使一个人为了自己的目的以特定的方式做出反应。

88.重 – 1） 激烈的 SM 游戏或鞭打。2） 描述能够提供强烈感觉的 SM 玩具（例如鞭子或手杖）的术语。

89.Hood （兜帽） – 用于头部的覆盖物。SM 中使用的引擎盖由各种材料制成，特别是;皮革、氨纶和橡胶。一些头套是作为装饰品构建的，其他兜帽被用作束缚的一部分，以控制或限制视觉、声音、言语（通过加入堵嘴）和/或呼吸。

90.羞辱 – 顽皮的尴尬或通过取笑一个人的来羞辱他们可能是色情控制的一部分。SM 中的羞辱可以自相矛盾地建立一个人的自尊，而不是通过加强他们的性行为来摧毁它。对一个人的自我价值或性行为的真正攻击，或旨在破坏他们精神的纵，都是滥用行为，不属于 SM 的适当做法。

婴儿主义 – 涉及婴儿样行为的角色扮演，例如穿尿布、哺乳等。

91.角色中 – 扮演性原型或幻想角色的角色。

92.孤立 – 1） 害怕与他人交往。人们经常是;a） 由于害怕社会影响而不敢 “出柜” 他们对 SM 的吸引力，或者 b） 他们可能认为没有人和他们一样对特定的 SM（或其他性）行为有吸引力。在这两种情况下，这都可能导致不足、自我怀疑、抑郁和/或孤独的感觉。2] 一种感官剥夺、束缚和诡计的技巧，使顺从者感觉好像他或她被单独留下。

93.绳艺 – 麻绳束缚

94.Kama Sutra – 一本关于性技巧、人类性行为和爱情的古老梵文指南。

95.凯瑟琳轮 – 一种地牢设备，看起来像一个垂直安装的大型轮子，顺从者被绑在上面，允许她转动或旋转。警告：不适用于倾向于晕动症的潜艇。

96.刀戏 – 包括使用刀的游戏（不一定意味着切割）。刀子更常被用作心理效果的道具，在火和冰场景后从身体上刮蜡，脱掉衣服，以及无穷无尽的其他狡猾目的。

97.乳胶 – 乳胶和橡胶用于制作服装、床单和其他恋物癖物品

98.皮屁股 – 1） 一个术语，描述一个人经常被殴打，以至于只有猛烈的鞭打才会产生任何效果。2） 重划桨后臀部的状况。皮肤受压，摸起来变得僵硬或“坚韧”。桨的压缩效果最为明显，因此可以通过混合使用各种工具来避免皮革屁股。

99.生活方式者 – 过着支持而不是与他的 SM 幻想原型冲突的生活方式的人。一些生活方式者反对将他们的 SM 身份描述为幻想角色扮演，认为这是他们个性不可或缺的一部分，而不是性游戏。混淆现实和幻想很容易，而且往往很有吸引力。[见另类性行为;替代生活方式;角色中]

100.限制 – 在谈判过程中由支配者和顺从者设定的 SM 活动的界限，定义了每个人在场景中愿意和不愿意做什么。任何一方都必须遵守限制，切勿故意违反限制。限制适用于角色、支配和服从程度、持续时间，以及鞭打、划桨等体育活动。

101.住家奴隶 – 生活在奴隶/主人（或情妇）幻想背景下的忠诚关系中顺从的生活方式。

102.男子气概 – 一个顺从的人，不愿表现出痛苦，不愿使用安全的词语，或者觉得有必要坚忍地忍受不愉快的事情。男子气概的潜艇可能是出于证明自己的勇气、表现出奉献精神或反映她内心幻想的愿望。男子气概的潜艇必须确保主教在谈判过程中意识到她的倾向。大男子主义顺从者的统治应该更多地依赖于签到技术，而不是自发的反馈。男子气概的可取之处是强烈的服从欲望。命令她清楚地沟通压力，因为压力发生了，可以克服她不愿“成为懦夫”的一些不愿。

103.受虐狂，受虐狂——对痛苦、羞辱和/或被支配的色情享受。一个喜欢痛苦的人，等等。有时这些术语用于描述享受更重疼痛的人。

104.大师 – 在 SM 角色扮演中占据主导地位的男性。这个头衔可以授予男性占主导地位的人，以表彰他的技能。它可能是一个爱的词，也可能是一段关系中顺从者对统治者的爱的致敬。同样常见的是，这个词是具有主导幻想的男性的自我夸大，前面经常加上“真实”或“真实”。

105.精神束缚– 命令无绳束缚。一个顺从的人在她的支配者指示下保持原位，会觉得有义务服从。

106.情妇 – 女性主导。[参见 Dominant、Dom、Domme、Domina、Dominatrix

木乃伊化——一种将顺从者完全或几乎完全包裹在限制性材料中的束缚技术，例如;保鲜膜、氨纶、弹性或纱布绷带等。

107.谈判 – 确定上层和下层之间性活动和 SM 活动的实践和界限的过程。它可能适用于整个关系或仅适用于特定场景。谈判是一个持续的过程，作为参与者重复？需要改变。

108.夹、夹 – [参见 Clamp、Clamping]

109.游戏/酷刑 – 出于身体或色情目的刺激。通常包括;吸吮、捏、夹、火和冰或刺穿。

110.未经同意 – 未经任何玩家批准的 SM 游戏。

111.鼻孔带 – 一种装置，通常由弯曲的金属丝制成，附有一根绳子，用于钩入鼻孔以进行羞辱和折磨。常用于日语SM。

112.新手 – 对 SM 感兴趣但缺乏经验的人。

113.东方束缚，绳索连衣裙 – 源自远东使用的风格的多种绳索束缚风格中的任何一种。通常，束缚具有很强的装饰性、均匀性和对称性。

114.过膝，OTK – 经典的打屁股姿势。也是相同的代号。

115.所有权，绝对所有权 – 1） 在主/从角色扮演中，所有权意味着控制顺从者。2） 在 SM 社区中松散地用于表示持续的主导/顺从关系。3） 绝对所有权是一种基于施虐受虐神话和虚构传说的迷失在幻想中的关系。

116.桨，划桨 – 一种刚性平坦的器具，通常由皮革或木头制成，用于打腰包。划桨是使用桨的行为。桨也是聪明的受虐狂经常发现自己没有桨的工具。

117.痛苦荡妇——一个从身体疼痛中获得快乐的受虐狂。

118.泛性恋– 非特定性别的性取向。一个涵盖所有性和性别取向的群体被称为泛性恋。

119.穿孔 – 在 SM 场景中用针刺穿皮肤，作为仪式或身体改造。最常见的是，穿孔伴随着珠宝的安装。一个例外是游戏穿孔。在游戏穿孔中，针头作为场景的一部分插入或穿过皮肤，但通常允许伤口愈合，而无需引入珠宝。

在游戏穿孔中，皮肤的许多部位可能会同时被刺穿。有时，针在整个场景中都留在皮肤中，用绳子、线或绳子绑在一起，然后在场景结束时取出。

永久性的穿孔通常被放置在近东人常见的地方，以达到装饰和色情价值。这些部位通常是：鼻孔和鼻中隔、耳朵（在耳垂、耳屏和螺旋中）、嘴唇、乳头、沿阴茎干和阴茎头、阴囊、内阴唇和外阴唇以及阴蒂的罩。一些较新的穿孔方式包括手指之间的蹼、眉毛和鼻梁。

据说色情穿孔可以增强被刺穿的身体部位的感觉。来自加利福尼亚州奥克兰的身体改造专家（她进行穿孔、切割和品牌）和珠宝商 Raelyn Gallina 发明了一种名为“三角形”的穿孔，它可以穿透两侧的罩和下方，因此，安装的环在完全皮肤下方接触。

寻求穿孔的人被警告不要使用穿孔“枪”、缝纫针或安全别针。最好寻求美国、加拿大和欧洲大部分地区都可以获得的专业帮助。很多时候，纹身店会与专业的穿孔师联系在一起。这些人拥有提供无菌穿孔的设备和建议适当善后护理的知识。

120.Pillory – 从清教徒统治时期流传下来的 pillory 通常是木制框架的独立式枪托，用于囚禁头部和手腕以固定一个人。用于您选择的羞辱。

121.Pizzle – 公牛或其他大型动物干燥和拉伸的阴茎，形成鞭子。这些实际上是致命的玩具。

122.保鲜膜 – 普通的旧塑料食品包装可用于包裹身体以进行束缚。与食物不同，它不会让你的顺从保持新鲜。[见木乃伊化]

123.播放 – 参与 SM 场景或 SM 场景活动。

游戏室、祈祷空间 – 您指定执行 SM 场景的任何区域。酒店房间、僻静的树林和送货车以及永久布置的地下室或地牢都符合条件。也称为地牢空间。

124.玩惩罚——用惩罚作为色情遭遇的借口。那天早上，她烧了烤面包，忘记说“先生”，或者其他一些琐碎的不当行为，唉，必须纠正。不知何故，两人最终都得到了他们渴望的东西。作为一款游戏，这击败了脱衣舞垄断。惩罚是一种色情游戏，永远不应该用来解决严重的问题。

125.小马女郎，小马男孩 – 约翰·威利 （John Willie） 的画作中永垂不朽的经典 SM 幻想，并在安·赖斯 （Ann Rice） 的睡美人三部曲中使用。典型的小马服装包括连接到肛塞上的马毛尾巴、有点堵嘴和/或缰绳头带以及缰绳。通常会添加非常高的高跟鞋、紧身胸衣和头发上的羽毛。手臂通常被绑在背后。小马的活动范围从展示和指挥缰绳到骑乘或拉车。

126.小马训练 – 将女孩（或男孩）奇特地变成“小马”，被骑乘、拉马车或表现为一匹训练有素的马，服从和举止。

127.位置训练 – 训练顺从者根据命令或在某些情况下担任给定位置。

128.后场一跳 – 参加SM游戏后，有失望、抑郁、恐惧、厌恶、悔恨等的感觉。支配型或顺从型都可以体验到。《SM 101》的作者杰伊·怀斯曼 （Jay Wiseman） 使用“顶滴”一词来描述支配者的这些感受。

129.权力交换——顺从者屈服于他/她的控制，赋予支配者权力。权力交换是双方同意的，应该进行良好的谈判。顺从者产生的权力深度等于支配者承担的责任水平。

130.权力交换水平 – 将情感参与和感受深度与权力交换程度联系起来的系统。这五个级别是：一 – 有条件遵守，二 – 限制持续默许，三 – 临时服从，四 – 支配和服从公约，以及五个？绝对所有权。前四个级别基于现实。

131.临时服从——dom 和 sub 之间协商的持续关系，其特征是权力交换和情感参与，但缺乏认真的承诺。[参见电力交换电平]

132.性心理 – 与色情行为或性幻想生活相关的情感、态度、取向或心态。

133.惩罚性疼痛 – 故意为非色情目的而伤害的疼痛，通常是为了惩罚。这是滥用性的，通常是由于对适当控制机制的误解而引起的。

134.突破极限 – 1） 逐步扩大极限的谨慎过程。2）接近难以忍受的激烈游戏。[参见边缘游戏]

135.PVC – 聚氯乙烯 – 1） 一种用于恋物癖服装的塑料。2） 用于管道的 PVC 管，可以构建成束缚装置。

136.被子 – 一种身体玩具，看起来像一个农作物，末端有一个灵活的鞭状饼干。

137.受限的持续默许 – 由主和子协商达成的协议，可以在没有严重情感参与的情况下长时间随意玩游戏。[参见电力交换电平]

138.舔舐 – anilingus（-）的通用术语。

139.角色扮演 – 1） 通过为性倾向创造幻想框架来阐述一个人的性倾向。2） 具有兼容性幻想的人以互补的角色相互互动。

140.绳索连衣裙 [参见东方束缚、绳索连衣裙]

141.橡胶 – [见乳胶]

142.S.A.M. [参见聪明的屁股受虐狂]

143.虐待狂，虐待狂——从给予痛苦、羞辱和/或支配中获得性快感。可敬的虐待狂只给那些想要痛苦或羞辱的人，尊重限制，关心和小心。

144.施虐受虐狂，SM – 先进的性行为，包括双方同意使用痛苦、羞辱和权力交换来获得色情享受。SM 包括支配和服从、束缚和纪律、爱情束缚和色情打屁股。该术语经常被误用来表示更严重或更极端的做法

145.施虐受虐神话——社会对施虐受虐实际含义的误解。此外，对 SM 内部特定实践的不知情想法。

146.安全、理智和同意l – 描述 SM 社区内可接受的游戏;玩家在活动中遵守安全预防措施，不参与会伤害伴侣（精神或身体）的做法，并在进行前通过协商场景和场景相关活动来获得同意。

147.安全性行为，安全性行为 – 不交换体液的性行为;包括在插入玩具以及阴茎、牙坝或舔阴保鲜膜上使用避孕套、身体玩具的清洁、避免插入等。

148.安全词、安全信号 – 顺从者使用单词、短语或动作（例如被堵住嘴的顺从者投下保释金）作为停止场景或降低强度的信号。

149.圣安德鲁十字架 – 字母“X”形状的直立十字架，人们被绑在上面进行鞭打或酷刑。

150.粪便 – 粪便也玩弄粪便。

151.场景 – 1） SM 或恋物癖社区;或与之相关的事物。2） SM 游戏的发生或会话。

152.场景友好 – 熟悉和接受 SM 场景和 SM 玩家，通常是指专业人士的态度（治疗师、律师等）

153.场景装备 – 我们玩的 SM（通常是普通）玩具。[见齿轮]

154.感官剥夺 – 限制或淡化顺从者使用他/她的一种或多种触觉、听觉、视觉、味觉或嗅觉作为 SM 场景的一部分的能力。

155.感觉重新定位 – 将刺激的感觉转移到与接收到的不同的身体位置。

156.感官游戏 – SM 游戏，专注于在不使用疼痛的情况下刺激感官。

157.服务 – 潜艇为主权的利益而执行的行为、家务或劳动，无论是性行为还是其他方式。

158.会话 – 一个场景。[见场景]

159.蛇舌 – 一种由两三英寸宽的粗皮革带制成的拍打器，在大部分长度上切有一个深的“V”形。通常，手柄将具有双倍厚度，末端缝有一个环。这是一个非常讨厌的玩具。

160.性印记，重新印记——有一种学派认为，性反应是基于过去的交往、经历、背景和环境的印记产生的，通常可以追溯到童年早期。通过改变反应和创造新的联想来改变性行为是一种称为重印的技术。

161.性魔法，感官魔法——施虐受虐的积极描述性术语。

162.静音警报 – 新认识的玩家使用的安全预防措施。例如：一个顺从者第一次与支配者玩耍，可能会安排一个朋友在预先安排的时间靠近电话。如果顺从者当时没有打电话，朋友会收到出错的警报，并会采取措施确保顺从者安全。

163.娘娘腔化、女性化——男性潜艇想要的“强迫”变装和/或变性做法。

164.拍打器 – 一种灵活的半刚性带子，像桨一样使用。

165.奴隶 – 1） 在场景社区中，有时松散地用作顺从的另一种说法。2） 顺从者，参与了包含共同奴隶/主人幻想的忠诚关系。

166.从属合同 – 详细说明 SM 关系的条款、目标和限制的书面协议。

167.奴隶训练 – 以下过程：指导顺从者的偏好，以及调节顺从者的行为。

168.吊索 – 秋千和吊床之间的交叉体，底部可以舒适地悬挂在其中，

169.SM 积极 – 对施虐受虐和/或 SM 游戏和玩家的同情或接受态度。[参见场景友好]

170.SM 处女 – 很少或没有 SM 实践经验的人。

171.聪明的屁股受虐狂，SAM – 一个底层，他不屈服，而是挑战或惹恼，以引诱一个统治者来惩罚她。[见小子]

172.氨纶 – 一种非常有弹性的合成布，用于恋物癖服装和束缚装备。

173.打屁股——通常张开手打顺从者的臀部。有些人也使用这个术语来包括划桨。

174.打屁股凳 – 一种带有连接点的固定设备，旨在保护顺从者为打屁股做准备。正确捆绑或放置在打屁股凳上，顺从者的屁股处于一个可触及、方便的角度进行打屁股或鞭打。

175.打屁股裙 – 裙子或连衣裙，每个腰颊上都有镂空，旨在允许裸露皮肤打屁股。打屁股裙是经典的场景服装，除了实际应用之外，它还能增强羞辱/暴露癖。

176.吊杆 – 一种坚固的杆，通常是木制、竹子或金属的，两端都有环或孔，用作束缚工具，使顺从者的手臂或腿分开。

177.刺痛 – 皮肤表面有强烈的咬合感。

178.枪托 – 一种带有孔的装置（通常是木制的），旨在囚禁顺从者的手腕和头部，或手腕和脚踝。[见皮洛里]

179.红绿灯安全词 – 一种常用的安全词系统，其中红色表示立即停止场景并释放潜艇，黄色警告支配者当前的做法正在推动顺从者的耐力，绿色让支配者知道正在发生的事情非常好，应该继续。

180.异性恋 – 1） 异性恋的代号。2） 非 SM 导向的某人或事物的形容词。从这个意义上说，香草的同义词。

181.表带 – 1） 作为名词，这要么是束缚约束（通常是带扣的皮革），要么是体罚工具（也通常是没有带扣的皮革）。2）作为动词，它是用带子捆绑或殴打顺从者的行为。

182.顺从，潜艇 – 将自己的身体和行为控制权（在预定义的限制内）交给另一个人进行色情游戏的人。

183.子空间– [参见：底部空间]

184.顺从制服——顺从者强调性取向的一种常见着装方式，通常是非常短的裙子、暴露的上衣、高跟鞋和由吊袜带或紧身胸衣支撑的丝袜。

185.悬挂 – 一种束缚技术，其中顺从者的全部或部分重量由束缚中使用的约束装置承担。在这种做法中必须非常小心;通常，束缚安全带和悬挂袖口用于悬挂。

186.悬挂袖口 – 专为安全悬挂而设计的手腕和/或脚踝约束装置。[参见袖口，手铐;暂停]

187.SW-- 喜欢在 SM 角色或身体游戏中站在任何一方的人;即顶部或底部，dom 或 sub。2） 树木或灌木丛中用于体罚的细长柔性树枝。

188.卫生棉条训练 –密宗瑜伽，金刚乘佛教——印度实现超然精神状态的手段，结合了性和冥想技巧。启蒙之路有很多种，色情探索就是其中之一。

189.Tawes。taws – 厚实的硬质皮革，其中有纵向狭缝（或狭缝），以桨状方式使用。

190.砰砰声 – 一种比蜇伤更深的打击，砰砰声通常更容易忍受，但实际上可能更具破坏性，因为它会导致更深的瘀伤。

191.乳子折磨 – 涉及乳房的色情游戏。

192.Tolleyboy – 英国制造的带锁贞带，采用橡胶衬里不锈钢制成。

193.顶部 – 在物理场景中发挥积极作用，但不一定是情绪/精神控制的人。

194.托普病 – 一种自欺欺人的状态，其中托普相信自己对主导优越感的幻想。

195.从底层顶上 – 保持顶层掌控的虚构，场景的真正控制和方向掌握在底层。[另见，从上到下触底]

196.顶部空间 – 主导者或顶部在场景中实现的色情改变意识 （EAC） 状态。它的特点是高度专注、思维清晰、极度力量或高能量的感觉，和/或兴奋。距离感和客观性，仿佛一个人在山顶发号施令，可能矛盾地伴随着与顺从者的联系感，仿佛存在心理联系。冷静的视角可能会与色情的热情相结合。顶部空间之后可能会有持续的幸福感，或者有疲劳、抑郁或嗜睡的感觉。[见幕后跳水]

197.酷刑 – 在色情环境之外会很痛苦的行为用于增强臀部的性快感。

198.完全转换或“无哎哟” – 在色情场景中传递的鞭子、抚摸或身体刺激，开始时明亮并逐渐上升。性唤起的水平总是保持在足够高的水平，因此主观上永远不会将打击体验为痛苦。

199.训练 – 许多学科中的任何一门，其中 dom 和 sub 共同作用以改变 sub 的行为、条件和/或态度。包括但不限于;小马训练、肛门训练、位置训练、语音命令响应等等。

200.TS，变性人 – 出生时身体性别与他或她的个人心理不符的人。这些人通常通过咨询、激素治疗和手术来纠正他们的情况，从而经历 “性别重置”。TS 在手术修改前称为“术前”，在手术修改后称为“术后”。

201.TV， 异装癖 – 穿着异性服装的男人或女人。

202.真正的主人/真正的顺从 – 一个自我描述的术语，通常由无能的新来者或迷失在幻想中的其他人用来引诱一个人与他们一起玩。“真正的顺从者”（或更典型的“星期二奴隶”）是相信“星期二主人”所推销的胡说八道的人。“真正的施虐受虐狂”也被用来暗指不存在的、“真正的”SM 卓越标准。

203.吸血鬼手套 – 吸血鬼手套通常是薄的皮革驾驶手套，手掌上有锋利的金属尖齿或大头钉。尖齿通常是卡扣或水钻镶嵌，从内部戳穿皮革并粘合到位，尽管一些非常刻薄的手套使用拇指或地毯钉。毛皮手套可以以同样的方式用尖齿装饰，产生从非常漂亮到哟哟的纹理！

204.原版 – 例如，描述不属于 SM 场景的事物、活动和人员;“我们昨晚进行了原版性爱”，意思是“我们进行了性爱，但不包含任何 SM 场景元素。

205.言语羞辱/虐待 – 使用性绰号和类似的言语来刺激或谦卑自己的伴侣。当言语羞辱被用来支持顺从者的价值时，它是好的。当它被用来摧毁潜艇的自尊时，它就变成了虐待。两者之间的界限并不总是很清楚，并且可能会根据心情在一个人的心理中有所不同。请谨慎敏感地使用。

206.处女狂喜 – 新来者被 SM 淹没的一段时间（通常长达数年），以至于他们认为世界围绕着它旋转，永远无法想象回到任何其他形式的性行为。当迷恋结束时，失望和失落的感觉很常见。知道这是一个正常过程，因为 SM 已融入一个人的性行为，这可能会令人放心。

207.乙烯基 – 一种用于恋物癖时尚的材料。[见PVC]

208.紫罗兰魔杖 – 一种静电发生器，通常带有多个玻璃附件，包括：球体、细管、叉形管等，用于向顺从者的皮肤发送几乎无害的紫色静电“闪电”。

209.可视化 – 使用讲故事和口头幻想分享来在场景之前或场景中实现情绪或期望的心态。

210.水上运动 – 涉及尿液或灌肠的性游戏。[参见金色阵雨和灌肠]

211.重物 _ 铅钓鱼重物或其他重物挂在附在身体上的夹子上，以增加折磨。[参见夹具、夹紧]

212.鞭子 – 鞭子是用来殴打顺从者的物体。现场许多人使用鞭子一词来包括手杖、庄稼、桨、拍打器等，以及单鞭和多鞭。

213.鞭打 – 1） 殴打顺从者或底部的行为。2） 用线或绳子缠绕绳头，防止磨损。

214.白色闪电 – 白色玻璃纤维或树脂棒的常见昵称，通常带有用作手杖的皮革或橡胶手柄。它比藤条密度大得多，可以造成更深的伤害，这种感觉被描述为“切割”。[见手杖]

215.生殖崇拜/崇拜 – 将注意力集中在身体的某个部位，通常是脚、阴部或阴茎。2） 对支配者的角色扮演态度，通常是男性潜艇对他的女神/情妇。

216.包裹 – 让鞭子或手杖的尖端击打预期目标以外的身体部位。例如，瞄准腰包并击中它，但鞭子的尖端缠绕着腰包并击打臀部。臀部瘀伤通常是上层粗心或无能的迹象，他们经常没有意识到正在发生的伤害。

217.腕带 – 专为贴合手腕而设计的约束装置。[见袖口，袖口]

218.X 型框架 – “X”形的固定束缚框架，通常安装在水平位置。[见圣安德鲁十字架]